DHARMA TALKS

Eightfold Path

ASPIRATION AND BEGINNING AGAIN

Recorded on January 4, 2022  ::  Duration – 44:00

Reflecting on aspiration on the occasion of the new year.  When we recollect and refresh our aspirations, we gain not just a sense of uplift, but also, perhaps, the courage and willingness to begin again, freshly.

This talk includes pauses for written reflection.

FOR YOUR REFLECTION:

REFERENCES:

No Time to Lose: A Timely Guide to the Way of the Bodhisattva, by Pema Chodron 

WISE INTENTION

Recorded on October 26, 2021  ::  Duration – 35:35

The practice of wise intention is an important way of caring for the mind, and it is the hinge between our understanding (view) and our actions in the world.  We can bring awareness to our intentions in the moment, in specific situations, and to an overall direction in life.

FOR YOUR REFLECTION:

  • Present moment – What is the basis of this thinking?
  • Situational – Why am I doing this action?  How do I want to show up?
  • Overall – What is most important?  What matters?

REFERENCES:

Two Sorts of Thinking, by Gregory Kramer

Whole Life Path, by Dan Siegel   

BELONGING AND LETTING GO

Recorded on October 12, 2021  ::  Duration – 39:47

Exploring ‘widening circles’ of belonging a practice of letting go:  letting go into a somatic sense of safety, an awareness of the present moment, spiritual friendship, community, and the planet.  Experiencing our deeper belonging is the same movement as letting go of the small sense of self.

FOR YOUR REFLECTION:

  • When you feel a sense of natural and un-earned ‘belonging’ — in your physical body, with nature, or with others, what is let go of in those moments?  What is your experience of that?  What is no longer present?

REFERENCES:

Rilke’s poem The Swan, MN    

Shorter and Longer Discourses at Gosinga, Joanna Macy

Widening Circles, link to interview.

FROM OWNERSHIP TO BELONGING

Recorded on September 28, 2021  ::  Duration – 34:33

Sometimes the sense of self is described as ‘ownership.’  Often it’s easier to try to define what we own and what we are —what belongs to us — rather than sensing into a more fundamental belonging.   This talk explores ways we tend to try to negotiate or earn a sense of belonging or defend against perceived threats to it, and how this clouds our view.   

FOR YOUR REFLECTION:

  • What comes to mind when you consider experiences of belonging?  What is the felt sense of that?
  • How do you try negotiate or earn a sense of belonging with others?
  • What are your habitual responses when your sense of belonging feels threatened?

REFERENCES:

The Zen Mirror of Tokeiji, by Zenju Earthlyn Manuel in The Hidden Lamp anthology

Belonging, by Rev angel Kyodo Williams

You Belong, by Sebene Selassie

Mindful of Race, by Ruth King

WISE VIEW

Recorded on August 31, 2021  ::  Duration – 35:21

FOR YOUR REFLECTION:

  • What comes to mind when you consider experiences of belonging?  What is the felt sense of that?
  • How do you try negotiate or earn a s

REFERENCES:

The Zen Mirror of